Now a little about me. I am fifty-seven, six feet three inches tall, of German extraction, therefore, having straight blond hair. Unfortunately, in February 2010 due to the economic conditions, I had to cut my shoulder length hair (first three images above) to a more conservative longish businessman's cut (last two images above), so I could have a better chance at finding a job. I like to keep my hair more on the natural side then to grease it up with gels or creams. But I do use them on occasion when it is deemed necessary for the occasion.
My dad used to cut my hair when I was a kid, I used to go into the trash after he cut it and saved it so I could play with it, smell it, and taste it. Later, I taught myself to cut my own hair, getting off while doing so, wishing and still wishing to have sex with another guy while cutting his hair. I am not a barber, but have always wanted to be . . . I do cut other men's hair and enjoy every minute of it.
Since I was three, I can remember hair experiences, wrestling with my buddy's this being one way to get close to hair. Another one was to be the top boy when we would play piggyback. I just loved to have another guys head between my thighs and look down unto his straight shinny hair. I used to be on a swim team, in my youth. There too, I would be able to get close to guys hair when we would play a plethora of water games, like water polo, etc..
I love to smell hair and try every chance I get. While training guys on the computer, I stand over them and look at their hair as they work. When they need help, I lean down, take a sniff of their hair as I do. I haven't gotten caught yet looking or taking a long sniff.
Straight hair of medium to longer length is a great turn on to me. The color doesn't really matter as long as it is somewhat straight, somewhat thick, and healthy. Vincent Van Patten and Jan Michael-Vincent's hair in the 70's, Keanu Reeves sporting a longer cut, gay porn star Joey Stefano's straight dark brown hair, and John Moulder-Brown are prime examples of 10's in my book. I like watching movies with hair scenes. As I mentioned, my goal is to compile a list of movies, videos, television shows, et cetera so we can broaden our horizons. A media listing is available upon joining the club. Click here to join the club and fill out the membership form.
Earlier, I mentioned John Moulder-Brown. In The Deep End (1971), there are two scenes in the first ten minutes of this mainstream German/British film where John's straight shiny mop length brown hair is grabbed, pulled, and yanked by an older lady who is using his head as a "football" while she reaches climax. Below is a clip of the scene from the movie. As of this time, the DVD or VOD of the movie has yet to be released in the United States.
A member wrote me and suggested viewing Heart Throbs (1990). He said there are three scenes in the movie which stand out. The window washing scene, the "twins," and the scene following the twins. I found each to have their own flavor or attention to hair. While I was at the video store, I found another one, J. Brian's First Time Round (1972), the first two vignettes and the last one are instant hard ons. The second vignette is of a black plumber who fixes a guys leaky faucet. The guy who is having the faucet fixed has great healthy medium length, brown hair, with blond streaks running through it, as do most of the guys in this film. The plumber runs his fingers through the other guy's hair.
In December 2010, Dennis Milam Bensie, one of the original members of MensHair.org (also known as a charter member), released his memoirs Shorn: Toys to Men which addresses his cutting of men's hair fetish. The following month, The Cut, a stage play based on his book, saw it's world première at the Circle Theater in Seattle. I flew up for the première and to see Dennis. For a review of Dennis' book and play click here.
Dennis Milam Bensie and Rick Ritter at the première of The Cut, 14-JAN-2011
Dennis, my lover (not Dennis Milam Bensie), and I have been together for over 30 years. Over the years, I "converted" him to also recognize great hair. He lets me do anything I want with his hair, including cutting it, what a delight. He loves to have me comb his medium length straight brown hair, washing it, smelling, tasting it, and cut it. When we met, he wasn't into hair, now he is. He isn't into it like me, but at least he is in to it. A few years ago, I showed him my hair collection. He always knew I had it but I don't think he really knew until that point how much I really like men's hair. It was only after this point he allowed me to cut his hair and I've been cutting his hair ever since. What a pleasure! I am so glad I let him in on my fetish.
Now a little about sex. I am a top who loves to play with the head hair of the bottom during sex. The longer the hair the better as we are both able to enjoy what we like, he my cock, me his hair. Am open to numerous types of sex and at the request of the bottom will do B&D on him. I prefer to leave the hair on the head of the guy, however, will do anything to his hair to please him. On one occasion, the bottom asked if I would shave his six inches of straight long brown hair off and play with his freshly cut hair during sex. I did! We both enjoyed the experience and he the outcome of his shaved head.
Your fellow hair fetishist,